Anal

The anus is that nice little area of your posterior that is part of the digestive system, actually the last stage the digestion process. But in regards to sex it can be a mecca of delight. However, our society, while already prurient about vaginal sex, treats anal sex as though it is worse than the plague. Perhaps it has to do with the homophobia that our culture is based on, though it probably has more to do with the fact that it is pure sex. A study of sex has been treated has shown that any form of sexual expression that does not involve procreation is bad. Anal sex definitely won't end in a baby, which the good Catholics who seem to control our country hate. (Though there is a nice little twist in that many teens who are quite religious end up having anal intercourse because their vaginal virginity is still intact, ha).

My point is, anal sex is misjudged and it is nothing to agonize about. You don't even have to go full penetration with the anus if that bothers you, a nice little touch or poke can be just as nice.

I asked a couple friends how they felt about anal and what they had to say about it.

One stated: " I like to beg for it"
and Lugs Chicago talked about how it sounds like a lot of fun and you get excited for it, but in then end it is not as great as the idea of it. Interesting thought.

An entire book could be written about anal sex (and they are out there), I'm not talking just about anal sex techniques, but also about the social aspects of it. I just have to mention religious girls and anal sex again or saddlebacking, because it is an anal sex phenomenon that just makes me laugh. This anal sex term refers to the practice of a girl (a religious and horny one) who wants to keep her virginity but needs to get her jollies on. So she has anal sex instead of vaginal sex. Problem is, a lot of these girls think since it is not vaginal sex a condom is not needed and of course they know nothing of HIV/AIDS because they are conservative and religious. WRONG.

Any hoo, non religious anal sex is good, fun and kinky. There are endless possibilities in regards to playing around with the anus. Fingers, penises, butt plugs all sorts of things can be put up there and pleasure most likely will occur.

Here are some nice ideas to do with the anus.

Anal massage doesn't even involve penetration. According to The Guide to Getting It On, there a lot of nerve endings around the anus opening. Light pressure and rubbing can be quite relaxing. Rimming also can involve not penetration. Rimming is kissing the ass. Kissing the anus and slipping a little tongue in there is fun, try it.
Penetration with a penis. The Guide to Getting It On as some good ideas about leading up to cock in anus. The writers of the book recommend that you start off with a little bit of finger play in the anus. It is good to try to get the muscles inside the anus called sphincters to learn to relax. There are two sets of these muscles, and until both of them can relax, anal sex may be a little uncomfortable. Oh, yeah lube is nice when sticking a penis into an anus.

Note to guys, most guys don't get off strictly by anal sex. Some penis play outside the anus is usually necessary for a guy to get off.

Of course, don't go and continue doing something your anus if it starts to hurt, that is never a good thing. Sex is about being comfortable, it isn't about putting up with something that hurts you or makes you uncomfortable.

Another note to the gents some ladies or men are prudes or just don't want anal sex. You might want to make sure that it is ok to go up there, a finger might not be noticed, but a cock will be. Just ask, it has never hurt anyone to ask questions and questions about anal sex are nice.